Three is such a FUN age (times two). I am daily amazed at the things they say and do and the interactions they have with each other. I can honestly say, in truth, that I am finally ENJOYING being a twin mom. (mic drop... I know right?) It is still hard, and I am still tired, but oh the joy! Personalities are unwinding and things are starting to happen (like inside jokes only the 5 of us understand) and I cant describe how blessed I am finally starting to feel. I am getting the fever..... (not baby fever people) - but MOM FEVER. Like I want to travel and go do things WITH MY GIRLS. I am ready for weekends revolving around the extracurriculars, and I am ready to watch them grow and change. It has taken three years to get here. I kid you not. Three years of a lot of tears, a lot of sleepless nights, a lot of crying and spanking, a lot of noise, a lot of
MILLIE
There are just no words. She has 'earned' her nickname: Millie Fierce. She is tiny and agile and quick to her feet. This child misses nothing. She notices when I change my lipstick color. She is so much like me in so many ways its scary - meaning she is type A 100% and lives with her bags packed and one foot out the door. The more items on her daily agenda, the better. This kid thrives under pressure and cant sit still for 5 minutes. I can read her mind and cant help but laugh. She is the first one to wake up every morning and 4/5 days a week she is already dressed for school before she even wakes me up. She drinks like a fish (and I worry this will be a problem in the future). Chocolate milk for the win - always. She is a sour loser and if she gets beat at anything - it results in the biggest emotional breakdown you could ever imagine. (Mark says all the good athletes are cry babies when they lose so we are not concerned at this point over her whining). Her love language is quality time and she craves undivided attention. Ironically, as wild as she is at home, she is the sweetest, kindest, most thoughtful child in her class. The teachers tell me constantly that she always shares and wants everyone to participate. She never leaves any child out and is always making sure that everybody is "happy." (As her mother I can tell you that sounds so lovely and every mothers dream - but the truth is she is probably just tending to everybody else's business and knows when they need a cookie, or a toy, or a whatever). But, giving credit where credit is due, all moms tell me that their kids say "Mills is my best friend." She is a handful to handle and most people cant. She is the life of most parties and the usually the one in trouble at home, too. When her punishment results in a spanking, her heart crumbles. She literally can not emotionally handle getting a spanking - strong words usually do the trick just fine. Lucky for us, discipline with Millie rolls off within 5 minutes like water off a ducks back, and just like that she is back to loving you (from a distance). On that note, she is still not very affectionate and doesnt like to be loved and kissed on. Touchy/Touchy is not her thing. She takes care of Maryn with most everything (packing her book bag, finding her shoes, fixing her drink). Sometimes I think she can be overbearing, but I am starting to realize its not as much a control factor as it is a dependence issue. She depends on Maryn depending on her.... (if that makes any sense). She is the first to cry upon their separation, and if Maryn is gone, she asks for her repeatedly. She keeps us on our toes for sure, but we wouldn't have it any other way!
MARYN
Heaven sent a sweet one with this child. There is so much love in her heart I think it may explode some days. LOVE is totally what runs her. Affection is her language and a good cuddle is her game. Her preferred name these days is Claire. She sometimes corrects me when I call her Maryn. Actually, she prefers Angel Claire.... but I have to draw the line at some point. I'm raising ladies - not pole dancers. She has more facial expression than a Broadway actress and it can literally make your heart skip a beat to watch her talk. She blends into any situation with ease, and is always happy where-ever she may be. She is the best sleeper in the house. Sometimes when Mills is your bed partner, sleep can be hard (because Millie doesnt sleep) and so 3 YEAR STATS: (3 years, 3 months)
Mills:Height - 36.25 inches - 24% (33% at 2 year stats) - only grown 3 inches in a year - also only .5 inches taller than Maryn was at her 2 year stats???
Weight - 28 pounds - 23% (3% at 2 year stats) - gained 6 pounds in a year
Maryn:
Height - 41 inches - 105% (90% at 2 year stats) - she has grown 5.75 inches - almost double of Mills
Weight - 34.5 pounds - 85% (84% at 2 year stats) - only gained 4.5 pounds (even less than Mills)
Rose @3 year:
Height - 39 inches - 89%
Weight - 30 pounds - 43%